Author Archives: Dr. Howard Eyrich
The Art of Setting the Argument
Introduction The art of setting the argument is another way of saying, “Put your opponent on the defense rather than immediately defining your own position.” Far to often Christians live on the defensive in the sense that in their cultural … Continue reading
A Psalm for Those on the Spear End of Lying Politicians Or Lying Church Elders/Members
Psalm 64 Introduction Another Psalm of David that some consider a lament. I will not argue with that thought, but I see it more like Ps 46, a victory song that is very much aware of needing God’s blessing to … Continue reading
Boundaries Are Too Often Selfish Demands
Introduction Here are some of the reasons people are taught the popular idea of setting boundaries: • I am Feeling emotionally exhausted in this relationship with you.• Whenever I walk away from time with you, I often feel difficulty guilty.• You imply by words or actions … Continue reading
Seven Observations about Dealing with Oppression
Nehemiah 5:1-11 Observation One: Oppression, whether by corporate, by the rich, or by the government, eventually leads to a Tea Party (1-5) The circumstances driving the record of these five verses were the direinternal economic crisis generated by a local famine. The famine was layered by the relentless heavy Persian taxation was and … Continue reading
Who’s In Charge?
Introduction This is almost always a necessary question. The house is burning. Who’s in charge? The policeman, the fire chief, or the owner? It depends. If you watch the owner pointing and screaming, “My child’s upstairs!” The owner is in charge. If … Continue reading
Lesson from Ps 119
Introduction Let me briefly model for you a means of profiting from Psalm 119:1-8. You will find this refreshing exercise and perhaps inspire your practice of doing something similar daily. My wife and I have found this practice of morning meditation enjoyable and beneficial … Continue reading
The Fascination of People Differences
Introduction People and their differences have always fascinated me. Maybe that all started growing up on a farm. We had chickens of various sorts from Rhode Island Reds to White Leghorns to Bandis and their outsized friendly personalities (at least … Continue reading
Are You Surprised When People Don’t Make Sense?
Introduction Three things I read this morning prompted this blog. My morning usually begins with reading the Word of God. It is always instructive on several levels. First, in some manner, it informs and or reminds me of some important … Continue reading
Six Critical Elements of Parenting Effectively
This is a revised post from 2023. It includes a sixth important element. Model what you expect. My father once said to me, “You do what I say not what I do!” My father was at least open and honest … Continue reading
The Grief Work Challenges
Howard Eyrich, MA, ThM, DMin, There are three major categories of grief work. The sooner one takes up the challenge, the sooner they will gain their equilibrium. Lingering self-pity, inaction, and anger complicate living for the griever and their loved … Continue reading