Author Archives: Dr. Howard Eyrich

Protocols for Managing Christian Martial Relationships

Some years ago we were on vacation in Florida and attended Sunday worship at a church of our denomination that was pastored by one of my former students. We arrived little early (I was not sure of the location and … Continue reading

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Ten Steps to Retaining or Restoring Communication in Marriage

Listen to your own heart! What is your motivation? What is your expectation? What is your disappointment? What are you feeling? Answering these questions will help you manage your emotions and therefore your words. Listen to your mate’s heart! Don’t … Continue reading

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Hope: A Key Element in Marital Restoration

Hope-Focused Marriage Counseling [i] is one of many theoretical approaches to marriage counseling proposed by Christian writers. While not advocating the particulars of the writer of this volume, I am an advocate of hope being a necessary component of marriage … Continue reading

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What About Those Wedding Vows?

June is a great month to talk about wedding vows. Many couples follow May graduations with June weddings. Most are focused upon the event not the sacredness of the ceremony. For far too many the ceremony simply legalizes what has … Continue reading

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Learning How To Be A Father

How does a man learn how to be a Father? I grew up with a hardworking German father. He was great with math though he only went to the fourth grade. Unfortunately, he could not understand why I was not good … Continue reading

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Family Connecting

This week my granddaughter turns 15. She is a lovely young woman who is a scholar athlete. She writes songs, puts them to music and accompanies herself as she ministers to your heart. She has the ability to capture the … Continue reading

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Sexuality: Good or Bad

The response to this question will vary according to the experience of the responder. In the abstract most people would answer good. But the young woman who was molested by a family member is not so sure. The woman who … Continue reading

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The Reality of Alzheimer’s Disease: It Could Impact Your Marriage

The exponential growth of Alzheimer’s disease is a reality. The state of California conducted a study for the purpose of developing public policy regarding the impact of the disease.[1] These studies found that 18.5% of women and 10.2% of men … Continue reading

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Reflections of Ancients; Findings of Moderns

Ancient wisdom is pregnant with insight. It does not have statistical research as its reference point but reflects the outcome of modern psychological social research. As you read the following statements stand before a mental mirror and see how often … Continue reading

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What Does the Office of Deacon and Marriage Have in Common?

Yesterday I experienced an extraordinary joy and a deeply disappointing reality check. Yesterday after attending worship and teaching Sunday School at our church my wife and I hurried off to our son’s church to attend another worship service in which … Continue reading

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